What Can I do if My Partner Doesn’t Support My Pregnancy?

It can feel like a lonely road when your partner doesn’t support your pregnancy, but this is not the end of the story. His perspective might change as you communicate and give him space to process the news.

If you’re near Terre Haute, Indiana, visit Crossroads Care Clinic. We can confirm your pregnancy, clarify your options, and provide a safe space to talk.

Here are four communication tips you can use with your partner.

1. Communication Tips for Talking with Your Partner

1. Try to Understand Your Partner

Your partner could appear unsupportive because he’s nervous about the future. He’s probably wondering how he would support a child or how a child could affect his career or educational goals. These are completely normal concerns for both of you.

Try to understand where your partner is coming from and why he seems unsupportive. This avoidance of the situation could be his knee-jerk response instead of his actual feelings. Sometimes it takes time for a partner to process the pregnancy news.

2. Share Your Honest Feelings

Strong, lasting relationships are built on honest and open dialogue. Share your feelings with your partner. If you’re upset that he’s unsupportive, tell him. Talk through your fears and concerns, and help him understand your perspective.

3. Evaluate Your Relationship

Do you have a healthy relationship that you both want to continue? If so, you should talk about the future. Where do you see yourselves in six months, a year, five years, and so on? This conversation will help you think about and plan your next steps.

If your partner simply isn’t supportive or treats you poorly, it may be time to move on without him. Seek support through family, friends, and Crossroads Care Clinic.

4. Give Him Space to Think

If you had an initial conversation, give him a little space and time to process everything. After some thought, he may come to a different conclusion.

Even one night of not texting or calling can be enough for him to change his opinions or see things differently.

You’ve Got This

Navigating your pregnancy, relationship, and all the other factors in your life can be challenging. We’re here to support you during this confusing time.

Schedule a free and confidential appointment today to confirm your pregnancy and talk through every option. We’re here to help.