How Do I Tell My Parents I’m Pregnant? 

Telling your parents about your pregnancy can be nerve-racking, especially if it’s unexpected. Maybe you’re still in school or college, with a partner your parents don’t know well, or you’re not financially stable.

No matter your situation, telling your parents will give you a sense of relief to get the secret out. Keep reading for tips on how to tell them.

You can also schedule an appointment to talk with a caring team member at Crossroads Care Clinic. We have your back and can help you prepare.

What to Consider When Breaking the News

Every woman’s plan to tell her parents will be different. We advise women to consider their relationships with their parents and the following factors when preparing to tell their parents of their pregnancies.

The Time and Place

Choosing the right time and place can affect how your parents receive the news. Select a comfortable setting, like their living room or wherever your family spends their downtime. Only tell them when they look at ease and no one is in a hurry to go anywhere, like work or a commitment.

While there’s no perfect time, be intentional about when you break the news.

Together or Separately

Your relationship dynamics are different with each parent. Maybe you feel closer to one parent than the other, or that one is more understanding. You could tell this parent first so they can support you when you tell the other one.

On the other hand, you could tell both parents at once. Gauge your relationship and what plan might be the best received.

With or Without Your Partner

Depending on your parents’ relationships with your partner, you may consider bringing him with you for support. If you feel like a parent could target anger toward your partner, then you should probably tell them without him present.

Get Essential Details First

When you first learn about your pregnancy, you only know that your test is positive. Visiting Crossroads Care Clinic can help you learn essential details via an ultrasound, such as how far along you are (gestational age), whether your pregnancy is progressing, and if it is located inside the uterus. 

If you’re considering carrying to term, an ultrasound will also estimate your due date, which is important information for planning your next steps.

Schedule your no-cost and confidential appointment today. We’ll also encourage you as you plan to tell your parents and loved ones.